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Reading lists

Books to help you be better at love

Books to change your perspective on love (3)

Books that will change your perspective on love

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Extracts

Find Love Extract: The pros and cons of dating apps

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The best self-help books for a positive change in the New Year

How to navigate modern love and discover the right partner for you

Find Love

FROM THE HOST OF THE #1 WE NEED TO TALK PODCAST 
 
'FIND LOVE is more than a book; it's a compass for navigating the ever-changing landscape of relationships. This book is your toolkit for identifying and connecting with a partner who not only completes you but also strengthens you. It is rich with insights, supported by research, and steeped in heart.' - Paul Brunson 
 
From red to green flags, apps, speed-dating, attachment styles, trauma, dealbreakers, compromises and making it past the first date... finding love can feel like a minefield. 
 
In Find Love, world renowned relationship expert and Head of Global Research for Tinder, Paul Brunson, provides you with vital advice for navigating and securing real connections. Whether you're single and looking for love or in a relationship and wondering if your partner is 'the one', this book will arm you with the advice, skills, and simple tools you need to make an informed decision on how to simultaneously love yourself and find the right partner for you. 
 
'Packed with practical advice and brilliantly researched, this is a thoughtful, deeply helpful and empowering toolkit for all things relating to love and relationships’ – Fearne Cotton 
 
Published by Happy Place Books

How to Hold Space for Love, Trust and Lasting Connection

We Need to Talk

Paul Brunson is an internationally recognised relationship expert, entrepreneur, and television host. He's also the host of #1 podcast 'We Need to Talk'. He's American, based in London, and currently serves as co-host of Celebs Go Dating and Married At First Sight UK, relationship consult on Lorraine, a featured expert on Steven Bartlett's 'The Diary' project and co-founder of Endmost Therapy. He's also the Head of Global Insight at Tinder. Major media outlets such as Good Morning America, The New York Times, The Guardian, USA Today and Sunday Brunch have sought his widsom. Hailed by Oprah Winfrey as 'much more than a matchmaker, Brunson has also been named the world's most influential matchmaker by the Matchmaking Institute.

‘Love doesn’t fail because people stop caring. It fails because people stop feeling seen’ 
 
WE NEED TO TALK offers up a new definition of intimacy: not just physical or emotional closeness, but the ongoing act of making space for someone else to exist fully. 
 
Most of us don't know how to truly hold space for others, we were taught to react, solve and interrupt. Paul believes being present is a radical and learnable practice. And that it’s the key to repairing fractured relationships, deepening connection and repairing the internal disconnection so many of us carry. The simple framework Paul offers helps us, in turn, to improve all relationships with friends, family and partners. 
 
Rooted in neuroscience and supported by the data behind Paul’s #1 podcast We Need to Talk and filled with real life stories, this book is for anyone who wants to feel more seen – and to help others feel the same. 
 
'Paul is a true relationship expert - (he) brilliantly demystifies the secrets to fostering long-lasting connections.' - DR TARA SWART 
 
Published by FlightStory Books.

Paul Brunson

Paul is a true relationship expert - KEEP LOVE brilliantly demystifies the secrets to fostering long-lasting connections in this insightful and practical guide. It's essential reading for everyone.

Keep Love is a modern guide that helps readers better understand relationship patterns. Paul Brunson’s real-world approach allows one to reflect on the different ways that they show up in relationships so that they can develop a clear plan for investing in sustainable love.

Dr Judith Joseph, MD, Board Certified Psychiatrist, Researcher and Author

21 Truths for a Long-Lasting Relationship

FROM THE HOST OF THE #1 WE NEED TO TALK PODCAST 
 
'Paul's book is a game-changer – honest, insightful, and full of passion. The perfect guide to creating love that lasts and keeps the spark alive.' - DAVINA MCCALL 
 
Keep Love is your relationship bible combining cutting-edge research, case studies and self-help tools. Paul outlines all the key myths, issues and challenges that couples will likely experience in their partnerships and arms you with the simple tools, know-how and emotional intelligence to manage them. 
 
Through honest and open communication, mutual respect, problem-solving ability, intimacy, and a shared sense of purpose, Keep Love shows us how anyone can build strong foundations for long-lasting love. 
 
'Paul is a true relationship expert - KEEP LOVE brilliantly demystifies the secrets to fostering long-lasting connections in this insightful and practical guide. It's essential reading for everyone.' - DR TARA SWART 
 
Published by FlightStory Books.

Paul Brunson

Praise for Keep Love

Paul is a true relationship expert - KEEP LOVE brilliantly demystifies the secrets to fostering long-lasting connections in this insightful and practical guide. It's essential reading for everyone.

Keep Love is a modern guide that helps readers better understand relationship patterns. Paul Brunson’s real-world approach allows one to reflect on the different ways that they show up in relationships so tha ...

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Books to help you be better at love

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Find Love Extract: The pros and cons of dating apps

The best self-help books for a positive change in the New Year

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