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Haemin Sunim

Love for Imperfect Things
  • Love for Imperfect Things

  • Haemin Sunim

    From the author of the phenomenal multi-million copy bestseller The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down

    "Hearing the words 'be good to yourself first, then to others' was like being struck by lightning."

    Many of us respond to the pressures of life by turning inwards and ignoring problems, sometimes resulting in anxiety or depression. Others react by working harder at work, at school or at home, hoping that this will make ourselves and the people we love happier.

    But what if being yourself is enough? Just as we are advised on airplanes to take our own oxygen first before helping others, we must first be at peace with ourselves before we can be at peace with the world around us.

    In this beautiful follow-up to his international bestseller The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down, Buddhist monk Haemin Sunim turns his trademark wisdom and kindness to self-care, arguing that only by accepting yourself - and the flaws which make you who you are - can you have compassionate and fulfilling relationships with your partner, family and friends.

    "Even products labelled 'limited edition' are made on a production line with hundreds that are exactly the same. But there is only one you in the world."

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    'A wonderful book' Mark Williams, co-author of Mindfulness: Finding Peace in a Frantic World


    'The world could surely use a little more love, a little more compassion, and a little more wisdom. In Love for Imperfect Things, Haemin Sunim shows us how to cultivate all three, and to find beauty in the most imperfect of things - including your very own self' Susan Cain, author of Quiet

    'Beautifully wise insights into how we're all perfectly imperfect. A masterclass in letting go. As soothing to my whirring 'must do better!' mind as slipping into a hot bath when I'm cold' Catherine Gray, author of The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober

    'Heartwarming, calming and simple . . . filled with wisdom and powerful truths that will teach us to love ourselves first in order to transform our relationships with our loved ones' Hector Garcia, author of Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life

    'Haemin writes beautifully and simply so these vital life lessons resonate easily and deeply' Miranda Hart

Haemin Sunim is one of the most influential Zen Buddhist teachers and writers in the world. Born in South Korea and educated at Berkeley, Harvard and Princeton, he received formal monastic training in Korea and taught Buddhism at Hampshire College in Massachusetts. He has more than a million followers on Twitter (@haeminsunim) and Facebook and lives in Seoul when not traveling to share his teachings. In Korea, The Things You Can See sold more than three million copies and spent 41 weeks at No. 1.