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Change Your Life By Taming 10 of Your Mind's Greatest Fears

The Uncomfortable Truth

An A-Z of Warm Words for Every Motherhood Emotion

The Little Book of New Mum Feelings

Grounding words for the highs, the lows and the moments in between

The Little Book of Calm for New Mums

Raising A Happier Mother

Lightbulb moments that will change the course of your motherhood

Five years into my parenting journey, Anna's warm words continue to sooth and hearten me. And best of all, sometimes I get to pass them onto other mums and look super wise.

This is such an important book that every mother would benefit from having on their shelf. It's true that what a child really needs is a happy mother, and whilst self care can often end up at the bottom of our list, a mother taking time to focus on herself and fulfil her own needs should be high priority.

This guide to becoming your most authentic parenting self is a breath of fresh air in a world full of judgment. If you've ever fallen foul of mum-guilt, this book will change your life.

With her warmth and wisdom, Anna makes today's often overwhelmed parents feel seen and less alone.

How to Find Balance, Feel Good and See Your Children Flourish as a Result.

THE PERFECT, THOUGHTFUL GIFT FOR THE MUM IN YOUR LIFE! 
 
This isn't a parenting book. 
This isn't a guide to being a perfect parent (spoiler: they don't exist) 
This is a book about you. 
 
We can only anchor, nurture, nourish and instill confidence in our children when we extend the same support to ourselves. After all, how can we effectively tend to our children's needs when our energy reserves are depleted? How can we lead by example and teach our children the importance of healthy self-esteem if we are struggling with these things ourselves? There are a thousand and one ways to parent, and only one way that's authentic for you. 
 
Drawing on her work as a psychotherapist, alongside her own experiences as a mother, Anna shows that caring with our children begins with caring for ourselves, and it's time to replace exhaustion with empowerment. Far from being selfish, self-care is an essential quality of a happier mother good parent. The greatest gift you can give to to yourself and your children, is to give yourself permission to thrive.

Anna Mathur is a psychotherapist and bestselling author. She's passionate about taking therapy out of the therapy room and sharing her personal and professional experiences to support mums through motherhood. She shares supportive insights on Instagram (@annamathur), via online courses and through her incredibly popular podcast 'The Therapy Edit'. Anna's podcast has now released almost 150 episodes and received over 2 million downloads, with guests including Fearne Cotton, Sophie Ellis Bextor, Anna Whitehouse, Holly Tucker, Giovanna Fletcher, Liz Earle, Jo Tutchener Sharp, Anna Williamson, Ashley James, Louise Pentland, Sarra Hoy and more. Anna has appeared on Woman's Hour, Good Morning Britain, Sky News, Steph's Packed Lunch and Katie Piper's Breakfast Show, as well as coveted podcasts including Happy Mum Happy Baby, Dirty Mother Pukka, The Scummy Mummies Podcast, The Midult and Deliciously Ella. Anna regularly features in titles including The Telegraph, The Independent, Grazia, Marie Claire, The Sun, Closer, Stylist and Mother & Baby.

How to Be the Mum You Want to Be unpicks the myth of perfect motherhood and reframes what 'a good mother' looks like. Using her own experience as a mum combined with therapy expertise, psychotherapist Anna Mathur provides a toolkit for becoming a calmer, more patient and more resilient mum. 
 
Dismantling how mums come to set impossible expectations of themselves, the book offers evidence-based therapy guidance and tackles taboo subjects such as maternal rage and intrusive thoughts in depth and detail. Anna will compassionately but firmly empower mums with practical ways to learn to trust their gut, see how well they are doing, set realistic standards - and to define which standards are actually important - and therefore see what a great mum they already are. 
 
Each chapter provides strategies for reframing 'competency' in motherhood, to take the pressure off and focus on the issues that truly matter. Containing case studies, journaling prompts and tools that are simple to implement even when sleep deprived. This book will help mums understand that they are the best mum they can be, they just need to see it.

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