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Let's F*cking Date

Become the Prize, Enjoy the Ride, and Never Settle Again

FROM THE CONTENT CREATOR, ENTREPRENEUR AND VOICE TRUSTED BY OVER A MILLION WOMEN COMES THE ONLY DATING BOOK THAT WILL GIVE YOU A HUG AND A SLAP IN THE FACE.

“I’m running out of time.”

“He said he didn’t want commitment and then got a girlfriend two months later.”

“Everyone I know is engaged and I can’t get a second date.”

If you’ve said any of these to your therapist, your group chat or yourself at 1am, this book is for you.

Let’s F*cking Date is the essential dating guide for women who want love, have standards and are done apologising for either. With laugh-out-loud humour and hard-won wisdom from years of getting dating wrong, Serena Kerrigan covers everything from building an unshakable foundation on your own to making love actually last.

Forget vague advice about simply hoping for the right person. This book gives you practical tools to date with confidence, recognise the wrong relationships and build the right one

  • The List: separate your non-negotiables from your ego and stop chasing the wrong people
  • The 3P Theory: categorise every date as Potential, Practice or Plot, so you stop overinvesting in Plot
  • The Roster: date multiple people confidently and honestly
  • The Fck No Funeral: a ritual for burying the situationship you should have ended three months ago
  • The Glue: discover what actually holds a relationship together when the newness fades and you’re arguing about the thermostat

Whether you’re single, stuck in a situationship or building a lasting relationship, it's time to stop dating from fear and start making empowered choices.

You’re already the prize. Now act like it.

© Serena Kerrigan 2026 (P) Penguin Audio 2026

About Serena Kerrigan

Serena Kerrigan is a content creator, media personality, and entrepreneur. With a devoted following of nearly one million across social media and millions of views on her videos, Kerrigan’s audience has crowned her the Queen of Confidence for her unfiltered takes on breakups, self-esteem, and self-love. Serena is also the founder of Let’s F*cking Date, which started as a digital series and turned into a bestselling card game franchise, sold-out live shows, and a global community of over a million people. She is a Duke University graduate, a Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree, and the creator and star of the Peacock series Older, Hotter, Wiser.
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